How Comfortable Would I Be With My Words?

On Christmas morning I received an email from a friend that I am sure she did not write, but passed on because for some reason she agreed with the sentiments behind its words. The email was undisguisedly racist and sounded like something Bill O’Reilly or one of the other hate radio mongers would write. I, being the sort who has no compunction about speaking up at emails like that one, wrote my own diatribe against it. I was pretty angry when I wrote it, and the force of my anger is behind the words.

This morning another friend who commented on my comments said when he writes something when he’s angry, before sending it he asks himself if he would mind his words if he read them a year later. That’s probably a good policy, especially for someone like me who can be a bit, mmmm, unrelenting when on the offensive.

So for the email I responded to yesterday, if I ask myself how would I feel about my words if I read them a year from now? Just the same. And I would probably get just as mad.

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One thought on “How Comfortable Would I Be With My Words?

  1. This morning another friend who commented on my comments said when he writes something when he’s angry, before sending it he asks himself if he would mind his words if he read them a year later.

    And obviously weblogs are different than eMail, which gets filed in places you cannot find again.

    If the goal is to transfer from one’s mind to another’s, as accurately and completely as possible, then the size of that task can be rather daunting.

    Words might be used to invoke emotions in another, rather than to convey a concept. Often, when one is in that sort of communication mode, it can be quite irritating to be taken literally.

    Better we all be equipped with infrared technology.

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